The first reading from Sirach states “Whoever reveres his father will live a long life;  he who obeys his father brings comfort to his mother.” Jesus as a Jewish child, was obedient to his earthly parents, but he also had a mission from God to save all of us. Mary and Joseph were understandably frantic when they couldn’t find Jesus among those with whom they were travelling. When they found Him in the Temple four days later, they asked a human question, “Son, Why have you done this to us?” Jesus responds, “Why were you looking for me? Did you not know that I would be in my father’s house?” I can almost hear the tone of an incredulous 12 year old when I hear this line. He probably thought: of course I’m here in the Temple Mom and Dad, where else would I be? But since Jesus was obedient, there probably wasn’t any eye rolling with his response as there may be with children today. 
 
This one story of the child Jesus found in the Bible gives us, as parents and sons and daughters, an example of patience and understanding needed within the family. Our family is our “safe place,” we sometimes react in anger towards our family members when we’re upset with someone else because our family will love us no matter what. However, we should try to respect our parents and loved ones and use Jesus as an example. We need to ask for forgiveness when we act out against our parents or siblings. As the letter to the Colossians states, “Put on, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, 
 
if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do.” After a calming period, go back to the one you acted out towards and explain where your mind and heart was in the moment. Your family will always have your back and will help you with the situation that is upsetting you in the first place.